Hajar & Sirius

doggy style > hajar the last time I went to a club I ruined my relationship with the most important person in my life
doggy style > going to a club isn't on my list of things to do at the moment

birdmum > oh god
birdmum > sorry
birdmum > i didn't know
birdmum > it just looked like you were having fun
birdmum >
birdmum > do you need someone to talk to?
birdmum > i know we aren't that close or else i'd probably know what happened
birdmum > but you know
birdmum > might as well check

doggy style > nah it's fine
doggy style > I don't wanna trouble you and like you said we don't know each other that well
doggy style > so I'd have to explain a lot of things
doggy style > and like
doggy style > you don't need my baggage
doggy style > I can probably give you club recs but uhhhhh a lot of illegal things go on there because when I was hopping around night clubs I wasn't at my
doggy style > let's say healthiest state of mind

birdmum > jees. ok.
birdmum > just take care of yourself or something
birdmum > if you have a club without illegal stuff going down, that would be best
birdmum > but i guess
birdmum > it sounds like i've sparked something not good for you
birdmum > so like
birdmum > you don't have to
birdmum > take care of yourself first, my questions are secondary.

doggy style > I'm taking care of myself best I can and mj is picking up on my slack :')
doggy style > I can't really think of a lot of clubs that don't have illegal shit going down
doggy style > I can name like five that have prostitute rings but then you would probably be obligated to go make some arrests
doggy style > you also don't really have to go to a club to have fun hajar
doggy style > you could check out a class at the community center for some wholesome socializing

birdmum > well, at least you've got support.
birdmum > uh, no way to those then
birdmum > i want to go to have fun, not do work
birdmum > and if i neglect work and get involved in illegal stuff
birdmum > yeah, that's worse. i've got a kid
birdmum > pfft
birdmum > you don't understand
birdmum > i've got friends
birdmum > i just need like
birdmum > to feel hot and desired sometimes
birdmum > that's all

doggy style > install tinder and swipe right on everyone
doggy style > that's what I used to do
doggy style > and for the record hajar I think you're hot as hell
doggy style > but in like, a platonic way
doggy style > I'm taken
doggy style >
doggy style > sort of
doggy style > it's very complicated

birdmum > no way
birdmum > i still gotta be cautious, you know
birdmum > i can't just open up to everyone
birdmum > people on tinder can be real sweet talkers on the app but are totally assholes in real life, ya know
birdmum > i guess that happens at clubs too but i swear i've trained myself better now!
birdmum > and thanks
birdmum > but platonic doesn't scratch that itch, ya know
birdmum > sometimes i just wanna be 'can't keep my hands off' hot

doggy style > maybe you could try going to some speed dating events or something?
doggy style > or poke around other clubs there's definitely better ones than the ones I went to
doggy style > and I feel you
doggy style > I want to be desired and have someone completely unable to keep their hands off me
doggy style > that sure would be nice :')
doggy style >
doggy style > ok I just googled around a bit and I found a single parent meetup thing
doggy style > they meet up at a different bar every week
doggy style > if you're interested I can send you the link

birdmum > eh. speed dating is always really stiff
birdmum > and thank god!
birdmum > someone gets it
birdmum > that single parents thing sounds alright
birdmum > yeah, give me the link

doggy style > (link)
doggy style > there u go
doggy style > now all you have to do is find a babysitter that cub will tolerate

birdmum > thanks!
birdmum > and yeah...
birdmum > cub's alright with my mum, but i feel like i've been relying on her way too much recently
birdmum > it'd be great to have someone who can help with the side of cub that i don't know much about but...
birdmum > uh
birdmum > they're not very easy to find
birdmum > especially ones down for babysitting

doggy style > maybe u could ask kemal
doggy style > he might be helpful
doggy style > plus he's got a daughter so you know he's already good with kids